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The Anatomy of Time

Many a times, we tend to smile even when the whole world is falling apart.
Many a times, we don't want to go that extra mile to finish a task.
Many a times, we do not want to speak out though we an ocean of things to say for fear to dejection.
Many a times, we cry of guilt for an opportunity lost.
Many a times, we loose people who always meant the World to you.

This post is for those people who missed a heartbeat while reading one of the above statements or missed many a beat ..

Life gives you opportunity .. but more often than not, it is only once. So when it knocks on your door - make sure you hear the slightest knock.

We tend to be sometimes scared of the hierarchy..Whether in family or at work. So while planning to accomplishing a task - we try not to reach out to higher levels for fear of being less competent. But hey, weren't they too once at your level before reaching out to the next higher up? So gear up and muster the courage to ask and receive !!

Be the World to someone they said. And in the process of building yourself, your shoulders got heavier, your hand got toiled and you just grew up even before you realised it. Smiling between the tears, laughing together with the crowd though you are broken in the inside - Yes. You are matured now 😊

He fell in love with her. She waited for him to express it. And amidst the loving and waiting, another untold love story just found it's end! It's never too late. Break the barriers, express yourself. You never know what is waiting for you at the other side. Instead of dying with the guilt of not being able to talk your heart out..Isn't it better to speak out and feel light hearted. Worst case if things do not work your way.. what are friends are who are always holding your back? 😋 A lot of times, we are too late to express ..We understand the value of something/someone only after they are gone. So go out there.. Embrace the love that is waiting for you ☺️

They say.. friends who do not insult each other never qualify to be best friends. And I am sure we have a bunch of them who are just waiting to watch you fall(literally) and laugh their heart out!! In life, we meet a lot of people in our due journey...Some get close, some leave ..Some become so dear that you cannot imagine a life without them. We meet people along the way for a reason. We learn a lot from each of them. So if someone just crossed your mind while reading this...If you just had a flashback of events ..Go out there...Scroll through your fb, insta and try to grab details and get in touch with people who have failed to keep in touch. If you have lost people out of misunderstandings, try to sort things out cz - Time heals everything and yes now is the time. They may not mean the World to you.. but for someone you may be their entire World 😊

Though the world celebrates Valentine's Day for the people in love, let us - in this month of love..  Take a moment to express love to all the important people in our lives. There's a mom waiting to hear her child's voice..A sister who eagerly wants to share a gossip, a brother who needs to share a secret, a best friend who wants to tell you about his/her new crush, a bf/gf just waiting for the screen to flash your name, a needy friend who just needs a ear and shoulder to cry on!

Remember -  Time waits for none.

So have you expressed yourself yet? You live only once. So ride the rollercoaster, spend money,eat pizza and ice cream, fall in love, dance in the rain, cry your heart out when you need to, ask for a hug, fulfill your promises, say thank yous and sorrys.. because tomorrow, well, you never know if you will wake up to watch another day 😊

At the end of the day make sure there is someone really happy for the things that you did.. and make sure that some is the Content You 😊

Comments

  1. very well said..nice take on living in the now.
    one thing I'd beg to differ on(and this is just my opinion) : Time heals Everything.
    Although time may heal physical wounds, it's ineffective for deep emotions.
    when you want to put behind which was once very close to you,You may bury yourself at work, give it years of time, you may runaway from country cross continents even, but that deep feeling of love for her does not go away.if anything you'll miss her even more.
    So neither Time nor distance can heal that pain of not being in touch.
    Again, this is just my opinion.
    But as You rightly said, live love and enjoy now for tomorrow is but a hope and not a guarantee.
    Maybe someday i'll find that bit of courage to express my feelings for her..maybe she'll find that bit of mercy to listen..

    Thank You so much for a beautiful inspiring post..keep writing..Cheers!!!

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